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31, she/her, Current obsession is Batfamily. Please don’t ask me about ships. I love gen works, look out for mine! Batbirdies on AO3. I tag original posts but pretty much never tag reblogs with anything but incoherent screaming and misspelled words. Apologies.

ADHD and being your own zookeeper

So, I was diagnosed with mixed ADHD in my late 20′s. It’s been a couple years since then and I was recently lamenting to a close friend about the difficult process of working out alternative methods of doing things once you’ve (finally) realized the standard ways don’t work.

With that in mind I thought I would just volunteer some advice I have gathered over the last couple years of attempting to be my own zookeeper.

This will mainly be with an ADHD focus since that’s me but hopefully it will be helpful to lots of ND people.

to start, you’ve probably heard of inviting people over to force yourself to clean. This is…. a method. And it works! until it doesn’t (ie burnout). Basically this is a way to trigger a stress response in yourself that forces motivation. You can do this. I have done this. But I would say this is an absolute last resort and not something you should ever be doing on a regular basis. It is not the healthy way to go about this. So here are my tips on hopefully maintaining your life without needing to resort to this stressful method.

(also I know this is long ADHD peeps, I’m sorry I’m just longwinded it can’t be helped.)

So, to get started

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Hey all I think I may take a break from tumblr for a while. Just a heads up in case anyone is concerned by my abrupt absence. Social media occasionally gets to me and I’m in a phase that is Getting To MeTM.

I’m sure I’ll return… I’ve been on this site for like 13 years there’s no truly leaving it anymore 🥲 but not sure when that will be.

gffa:

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I have a new favorite panel of Jason Todd, shhh someone get him a blanket or a fidget spinner or something, he needs some enrichment in his enclosure.

(via theawkwardvirgin)

the-hero-system:

gayskrillex:

No one wants to admit this but you don’t actually have to eat eggs and dairy for breakfast. Farmers just did that because they’d milk the cows and collect eggs in the morning. You can literally make a sandwich or a bowl of pasta or really anything you want for breakfast. There isn’t some medical reason you have to eat cereal and milk or fried eggs in the morning—our idea of “breakfast food” is an entirely artificial construct. Do what makes you happy.

This goes both ways too! “Breakfast for dinner” was a special occasion meal growing up, but now that we’re in charge of our own food, we do it pretty often. If you want eggs and bacon for dinner, go nuts. Food has no time limit.

(via myexistingsituation)

dragonpyre:

Dick: so wait, most of us have died at some point. How come we don’t have white streaks in our hair like Jason?

Tim: maybe it has to do with the Lazarus Pit

Damian: false. Neither Mother nor Grandfather have streaks born of unnatural causes

Steph: maybe it’s cuz he was dead longer

Cass: that doesn’t make sense

Steph: do you have a better idea!?

Jason:

Jason: I have vitiligo, you fucks